having body hair annoys me but removing body hair also annoys me and also life, life annoys me
Having sex with a person too drunk to consent is a crime, though. So why is it not always treated like one? Perhaps because we assume that boys will be boys, or because we implicitly consider girls to be collateral damage to teenage bad behavior and irresponsible for not protecting themselves. There is a culture of cruelty and victory around young men “getting” sex even from young women unable to consent; and for some young women there is shame associated with an apparent failure to not “give it away.
I like my coffee how I like myself: Dark, bitter, and too hot for you.